FIND YOUR TRUE IDENTITY
How values play a role in life?
If there are no ambitions in life then there will be no purpose of life. Values only give respect, money and identity to a person in the society.But if we know which values can lead us to a dream life, then we will be able to achieve our goals quickly and well.
Therefore, by identifying the values today, we will tell you which values are productive and which are unproductive for you.
Now divide the values into two Parts:
HIGHER VALUES
Makes you productive and helps you become a well-decorated person so that you can be the backbone of a success story...
LOWER VALUES
Those who follow the lower values, there is a lack of confidence in them and very soon they start feeling lost due to which they start overthinking, and their relations also start deteriorating..
If you want that you never have to face all this, then you can also self examine yourself.
FIND YOUR TRUE IDENTITY....
How I find my true identity?
Simply follow two steps;
STEP 1. SELF ISOLATION
Take out some time for yourself which is only for you, in that you neither have any member nor your smart phone, tablet, laptop etc and there should not be any kind of disturbance in that place and think about yourself which type do you trust? Ask yourself whether your daily routine is making you productive or not? Have you deviated from your goal?
Do all these questions by yourself and note them down on a paper and then after some time you will see that you are looking for answers to all these questions, your mind is trying to solve the answer with all its strength and focus. and then you will try to make yourself productive.
STEP 2. REMOVE NEGATIVITY
OUTSIDE NEGATIVITY
STEP 1. ALLOCATE TIME
If you don't like people you don't like or who you feel is hindering your progress and you can't get rid of them, you set a specific time for them to spend as much as possible. And try not to give more than that.. ।
STEP 2. 75/25 RULE
This rule is mentioned by Jay Shetty in his book Think Like Monk and says that 75% of our time should be spent with people who think like us, who have clear vision. ..
And try to spend less than 25% time with them Spent together With people we can't leave even if we want to but our progress resist them....
INSIDE NEGATIVITY
STEP 1. SPOT
You find those thoughts or those reasons which are distracting you, due to which you are developing a wrong value..
STEP 2. STOP
When you know the reason why you are developing lower values, then you should try to keep distance from those things slowly..
STEP 3. SWAP
And change those lower values to higher values so that you can increase your progress again..
Example
Stop saying "I can't do it" Change in "I am trying to do my best"..
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